Baker’s Dozen: a recipe for wellbeing
In the 16th Century when selling certain goods, bakers were obliged to sell goods by
the dozen at a specific weight or quality (or a specific average weight). During this
time, bakers who sold a dozen units that failed to meet this requirement could be
penalised with a fine, including losing a hand. Therefore to avoid risking this penalty,
some bakers included an extra unit to be sure the minimum weight was met, bringing
the total to 13 units - or what is now commonly known as a baker's dozen.
So, it's been a rubbish year….what can you do to optimise your
days? How about your own wellbeing prescription using the
Baker’s Dozen skills? Anaesthetists are all experts at both learning
and performing skills, and want to be active participants. As
always, in order to get good at skills you are going to have to
practise (and practise) and get feedback as to how well you’re
performing. The implementation of these skills in your life will
help energise your own body budget and help you to think
and act in a way to navigate tough times. And anyone can learn
them….today.
Here is the recipe for the Baker’s Dozen:
Ingredients:
- A pen, to write the skills on your prescription
- A piece of A5 paper
- A fridge to stick it on
Method:
- Write your name and address in the top right hand corner,
along with today’s date
- Put numbers 1 - 13 down the left hand side of the page
- Stick it on the fridge and practise the following skills, based
on the three ‘C’s of stoic philosophy, every day
Control what you can
Cope with what you can’t
Concentrate on what counts
(we discovered a fourth C this year – any ideas what that
might be?)
Here are your skills:
- Challenge or threat? Do you view your problems as
challenges or threats, and which of these approaches is
psychologically more healthy [1]?
- Optimist, or pessimist? Whichever you are, learn some
optimism skills. Check out the works of Marty Seligman. His
original work was on learned helplessness, but subsequently
performed more valuable research. Our minds are like Velcro
when dealing with the negative and Teflon when dealing with
the positive, so choose where you put your attention and
focus on the things you can change. Don’t lose what you have
to what you have lost [2].
- Keep a gratitude diary. Write down three things you are
proud of doing in the last 24 hours (or just one thing). Hunt
the good stuff.
- Exercise. Check out the 7 minute workout® app [3] and
Down dog for yoga instruction [4].
- Meditate. Practise your box breathing every day. For the
cynics among you, read 10% happier [5]. Google run the
Search inside yourself training programme to improve
performance, with a book available outlining the strategies
[6]. Elite athletes use the
Chimp paradox approach [7].
- Become a stress management expert. To reframe your day,
empty your stress bucket when leaving work so that when
you get home you have a nice empty stress bucket, which
you fill up with home stress and reverse the process when
you return to work. For the naysayers out there, read
Why
zebras don’t get ulcers
[8].
- Discover the ultimate performance product. It has the
following properties:
• Live longer
• Enhances your memory
• Makes you more attractive
• Keeps you slim and lowers food cravings
• Protects you from cancer and dementia
• Wards off colds and flu
• Lowers your risk of heart attacks and stroke, not to
mention diabetes
• You’ll even feel happier, less depressed and less anxious
It is of course, sleep – ban your phones from the bedroom [9, 10].
- Make better decisions in life (and clinically). Use the WRAP model
[11] – when faced with a decision:
Widen your options - should I do a or b, or non-a/b?
Reality test your assumptions - what is the likely outcome of your
a, b or non-a/b decision?
Assume distance - if you can come away from the decision
and give it some space, try the 10/10/10 rule. Ask yourself the
question how will I feel in 10 minutes/10 weeks/10 years if I make
this decision?
Prepare for failure… and I mean complete failure. Anaesthetists
are very good at plan ABCD, but you can do everything correctly
and sadly bad things will still happen. Have you got a strategy
that you can implement to ensure that you can deal with that
outcome? Practise the pre-mortem technique recommended by
Gary Klein. When faced with a difficult decision you consider the
worst possible outcome; for example a patient goes to ICU and
then dies. Fast forward (cognitively) three months, you are being
questioned by the coroner and she asks
“In retrospect what would
you have done differently?”
If your answer is “Well I would have
sited an arterial line/ got someone to help me”
, what do you think
her next question will be? We may expect a perfect life, but we
are not entitled to it.
Further improvements in decision making come from the next
four skills:
- Never ever be afraid to ask for help, no matter how experienced
or confident you are.
- Learn how to deal with conflict. A life-long skill worth learning.
Should you ever find yourself the victim of other people’s
bitterness smallness or insecurities, remember, things could be
worse…you could be them [12].
- Learn. Become an expert at learning: in fact Learn like a pro
[13]. In fact, learn a new skill every year… like peeling a banana,
or tying your shoelaces or something even more interesting
(unicycling perhaps?) If you have a fabulous skill that you think
others should know about, then please share it with us.
- Become a human factors expert. Minimise the negative effects of
HALT (hungry, angry, late, tired) in you and your staff [14].
And for the icing on the Baker’s Dozen cake:
- Smile. Make five random people smile every day. It works, even
behind a mask!
For more information look at some of our wellbeing material:
Now you have written your own prescription, make sure you sign it at
the bottom. And try your best to follow it… Doctor’s orders.
Mark Stacey
Consultant Anaesthetist
Nadine Jones
ST7 Anaesthetist
University Hospital of Wales, Cardiff
Twitter: @airwayman1
References
- Frankl V. Man’s search for meaning, 6th edn. London: Penguin Books, 2021.
- Seligman M. Learned optimism. Boston: Nicholas Brealey Publishing, 2018.
- 7minuteworkout. The Johnson & Johnson official 7 minute workout®, 2021.
https://7minuteworkout.jnj.com (accessed 14/9/2021).
- down dog. Down dog app, 2021 - https://www.downdogapp.com
(accessed 14/9/2021).
- Harries D. 10% happier. London: Yellow Kite Books, 2014.
- Tan C-M. Search inside yourself. London: Collins, 2012.
- Peters S. The chimp paradox. London: Vermillion, 2012.
- Sapolsky RM. why zebras don’t get ulcers, 3rd edn. New York City: St Martin’s
Press, 2004.
- headspace. Headspace app, 2021. https://www.headspace.com (accessed
14/9/2021).
- Walker M. Why we sleep. London: Penguin Books, 2018.
- Heath C, Heath D. Decisive. How to make better choices in life and work.
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- Harris TA. I’m ok, You’re OK, 2nd edn. London: Arrow Books, 2012.
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- Nance JJ. Why hospitals should fly. The ultimate flight plan to patient safety
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